I cannot stress this enough… throughout your life you are always going to have to deal with jealous people or you yourself may even experience jealousy towards someone else. That’s normal, it makes you human but jealousy is an ugly thing. It can make people do evil acts, hurtful acts, or even acts they don’t think through which is why in my opinion it’s an ugly experience. As you mature and grow in life jealousy will slowly fade… or at least you will begin to view it in a different perspective.
As we grow we are faced with new life lessons, we learn our worth, our value, and we learn to love ourselves. When you finally reach that stage in your life you will no longer view jealousy as anything. It will not phase you, it will not beat you down, it will not attack you. You will become so confident within yourself; no one will be able to take that away from you. There will be people who view you as competition only because of the jealousy they experience because they haven’t reached the stage in their lives to where they truly love themselves. What do you do when people are nasty towards you because of jealousy? Pray for them, love them, show them kindness, and don’t allow their behavior to change yours. When you are confident jealousy does not tear you down, jealous people will only be hurting themselves. They are only showing they are not confident, that they one day will be where you are but they just haven’t reached that place in life yet. AND that’s okay, growth takes time, learning to love yourself takes time, just remember you were once in their shoes too. Show them the kindness you were given or the kindness you wish you had been given.
Confidence shows y’all. When you are a confident person and you are confident in yourself no one can take that from you, and no one in your eyes is a competition. Sometimes being confident in your own self can come across intimidating to those who are not; it can make those who are not confident jealous. There’s always going to be someone out there who’s smarter than you, prettier than you, more popular than you, BUT there isn’t another YOU. Love yourself, be confident in who you are, love your enemies, and show them kindness.
Remember a confident person does not view anyone else as competition. You are not competing with anyone else in life. Not everyone you meet in life will like you, not everyone will respect you, and not everyone will be nice to you. Be nice to yourself, be nice to those who are jealous of you, be nice to those who envy you, if they are then you are doing something right. “Confidence over Competition” – The only person you should ever be in competition with is yourself. Confidence shows, believe in yourself and remember who you are, be confident in who you are, because at the end of the day there’s not another YOU anyways.
“Confident women, never hate on other women.”
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