Take a second and read the title again “Love Like You’ve Never Been Broken”… there is so much power behind that one small statement, and I’m here to tell you just exactly what I mean by it.
So I’m sure at some point in your life you’ve experienced a breakup, or even some of you may have bad experiences that took place in a relationship which has now caused you to be guarded and put your walls up. Which is normal, we've all done it at some point. BUT... Let me ask you this question though - Why would you want to allow that one bad heartbreak to control your outlook on all future relationships? Are you going to allow them to win, or are you going to continue on as if you’d never been broken? If you never give someone else a chance to prove they are worthy of your heart, you will miss out on so many experiences in life. You might in fact just miss out on the person who’s truly meant to be your person. That being said my advice to you is any new relationship that walks into your life, don’t push them away because of fear, don’t push them away because you are worried about being hurt... if you view every situation in life with the negative mindset of something bad may happen, you are never going to be happy and satisfied in life.
Imagine if you walked into someone’s life and you were the one wanting to prove to them you are worthy of their heart but they are so guarded you miss out on a great relationship and so will they. You have to be willing to give someone new a chance no matter how scary it can be. Nothing worth having comes easy, nothing worth having comes without a little fear and excitement, and I promise you nothing worth having comes without letting your walls down and taking a risk. Pick up the pieces of your heart and tell yourself you will find love again, you will feel enough again, and you will finally be shown how you should've been loved to begin with. Because trust me, if they broke your heart and ever made you feel as if you weren't worthy enough to be loved... Did they truly love you in the first place?? (..hmm)
The best advice I could ever give to someone after heartbreak is never let that run your life and dictate your future outlook on love and relationships. It’s scary to open back up to anyone again, but what if the person you choose to allow in ends up being your forever? Love that new person to the fullest, love them the way you want to be loved, you have to respect your own heart to show them how to respect you and treat your heart. Love is fun, exciting, and beautiful, so do all things in your life with love. The next person that walks into your life, love them! Take the risk, put your guard down, you might just be surprised how much they prove they’re worthy of your heart. Love them as if you’d never been broken, and love that person with everything in you. Because you never know, they might just end up being your forever. Never tell yourself ill never love again, because trust me if they broke your heart in the first place and made you feel that you weren't good enough to be loved, I promise you it wasn't love. So pick up your heart, dust it off and get ready for the next chapter, leave that all behind you... and love as if you've NEVER been broken.
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