Everyone who has ever been cheated on one of the first thoughts that pops into their mind is “what did I do wrong” or “what did I do to deserve this”
I am here to tell you... girl or boy… being cheated on says absolutely nothing about you, it says a lot about them.
Cheaters are people who want their cake and eat it too. They are the type of person who loves the idea of having the relationship but wants someone else to keep it entertaining. A cheater has a mentality that they will never get caught, no matter how many times they do it they think it will never come out. FALSE.
Cheaters are insecure. For someone that can claim to love someone but yet have someone else to entertain them in the process is insecure. They are not happy with themselves, and they are not happy in their relationship. They are battling something within their own self. They think they need to have anyone and everyone to make them feel better, no matter how good their partner is to them it will never be enough. They cannot be with one person because of the insecurities they have in their life, never feeling good enough, they have to have more than one person tell them how great they are to keep their big ego.
Cheaters are manipulative. They know exactly what to say to make sure their partner in the relationship never leaves. They know exactly what to say to the person who loves them so they don’t start to doubt anything in the relationship. Cheaters are amazing liars. It’s easy for them to tell a lie, it comes out so calm and smooth that anyone can believe it. They will tell you exactly what you need to hear when things get rocky so you don’t leave them. People who are cheaters turn it on you. Anytime there is a fight you are the problem, you are crazy for thinking they could ever be unfaithful, and then somehow you end up upsetting them. Which is total bull s***.
Most importantly cheaters miss out. Cheaters miss out on the ones who truly loved them, the ones that stuck by them through thick and thin. Cheaters will never be able to find that person again. Someone who is willing to go through all the pain and fights for them will never be found again. They miss out on love, miss out on the loyalty, the trust, and the honesty that should take place in relationships. They miss out on the best parts of a relationship, because they aren’t worthy of one. They do not love you. No matter how many times they tell you, they don’t love you. If a person truly loves you they will not cheat on you, they will not disrespect you, and they would never do anything to jeopardize losing you. I don’t care who it is, how many times they tell you they DO NOT love you.
Cheaters suck. Anyone who has ever been cheated on can relate to this in more ways than one. If you have dealt with a cheater you relate to this so much. I’m sorry you ever had to deal with a cheater; no one ever deserves to be cheated on. I promise you though, you did nothing wrong. They chose to be unfaithful, they chose to break your trust, and they proved they are not worthy of your love. Cheaters suck, but remember they are and will always be the problem. NOT YOU. If they do it once they will do it again. Please don’t settle for the cheaters. Someone is out there who will show you, you are worthy of so much love and faithfulness. Don’t settle ever. Cheaters suck, you can always find someone to treat you like s*** so don’t waste your life with someone who does.
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