Let me ask you this question… “Are you praying for your future husband or wife?”
For as long as I can remember I have been praying for my future, and praying for that special person out there who one day would become my husband. I have always prayed for their family, for their heart, and for God to do His work in their life. But Why? Why did I pray for that, for him, for his family? Why do I continue to pray for him? Well let me tell you why…
That person one day will be my everything, that person will be the father of my children one day, that person will be the person I pray with and worship with for the rest of my life. I want a Godly man, and a Godly marriage. I pray for a man that will pray with me and for me. Why do I pray for his parents, and family?... One day his family will become a part of me just as much as he will. "You don't just marry the person, you marry the family too." So how his parents raised him, is what will shape him and mold him into the person he will one day be. I pray they raised him in a house that loves The Lord, and teaches him about The Lord. That is one of the most important things you can have in a relationship in my opinion, being able to share and talk about God, and talk about your beliefs. I want to share the same type of beliefs with my future partner.
Sadly, anymore I feel like we all get into relationships just to be in a relationship, or have that “label”, but why would anyone want to date someone that they don’t see a future with? You should date to marry, not date because you are lonely, bored, or because “everyone is doing it”. Instead you should ask God and pray for that type of relationship and that type of person to be placed into your life while you are single, and while you are dating. Someone once told me “when it comes from God you will know, it will be natural, it will be easy, and you won’t have to question it or them.” That is something I will always stand strong on and strongly believe. Until then pray about it, and have patience!
When the relationship is sent from God, there will be no cheating, no evil, and no hesitations. You will not have to question that person’s character; it will almost be like that person has been waiting on you and you them. Yes, you will still have to put effort into the relationship, and you will still have to put work into the relationship like you would anything else that’s important but it will still feel easy and natural, it won’t be a burden or feel like it’s a waste of time. I know God hears my prayers; he may not always answer them right away or right when I want it to happen, but when He knows I need them in my life, is when He will present them to me. It will make sense why it never worked out with anyone else. You finally understand why you went through that break up with that person. Because God knew they were NOT your person!
As I get older I will continue to do my part, and continue to pray for my future Husband. I will continue to seek God always and will continue to put Him first in the process. If I do that, and I put my faith and trust into Him, He will know when I’m ready, He will know when my mind and my heart is ready, and He will make it happen. He WILL bless me with that special person one day. Pray always y’all even when things are good. Pray. Don’t take anything or anyone lightly, pray on it, ask God to guide you and lead you in life. If it doesn't feel right, talk to Him. When you put God first in everything you do He will guide you to the right things in life, and will bless you with exactly you need in life.
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