There are billions of people in this world, so why waste time and happiness trying to please just one or a few? Throughout your life you are going to have people come into your life and people who exit your life. That is normal and sometimes it is okay. The moment you find yourself no longer longing for acceptance or no longer trying to please everyone, you then will find inner peace. As girls we constantly crave reassurance and acceptance, or at least I do. The people who are most important in your life and love you the most, will never make you question where you stand with them. They will never make you try so hard to be accepted by them. The world is full of jealous, evil, and ignorant people. So… if you are surrounding yourself with people who aren’t benefiting your life, maybe it’s time to start realizing they aren’t looking for your best interest at heart. You will never have to feel that you have to prove anything to them. Whether it’s a new job, new relationship, or a new path you have chosen for yourself. The ones who love you and the ones that matter will support you. They will support what you love and what makes you happy. They will continue to reassure you that what you are doing is okay, as long as you are doing you. Girls. Quit longing for acceptance from individuals who do not matter! Pray for them, understand that they are the ones who have the problem, not you. Know that you are making yourself happy, they should be happy for you. Like I said Girls the world is full of billions of people. So why waste your heartache, your tears, and your time on those who do not support you. You can love anyone, but sometimes you have to love them from afar. You cannot please everyone, and not everyone can please you. That’s life. But let me tell you… the second you walk away and close the door to those who no longer support you, you will not turn back. You will feel a weight off your shoulders. No one is perfect, quit trying to be. Be the best YOU that you can be. And anyone who does not see that and notice that. Should be left behind. Put yourself first, then others who love you, will follow.
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