I’ll never say this enough… if the person you are in a relationship is trying to change you, shape you, or mold you into a person you aren’t then I promise you they are not the one. If anything the person you are with should only help you grow and be the absolute best version of yourself. Not tear you down and make you change who you truly are. They will support everything you do in life, they will be your ultimate “hype” person, they will love to watch you simply just be you.
If you are dating someone and you constantly have to act a different way for your significant other, or if you have to be someone you aren’t just to please them, then I promise you they are NOT the one. This is simply what I like to call Red Flags. If you are currently in a relationship with someone and they make you question your worth. LEAVE THEM. They are not your person, they do not love you, and they are simply only trying to make you someone you aren’t. These are all big red flags, quit ignoring them and quit allowing them to go on. Trust me, you can only put blinders on for so long, eventually you all will break up, divorce, or infidelity will take place. So, save yourself more heartache and take the BLINDERS off, and see these red flags for what they are.
Y’all, the person that God has in store for you will NEVER make you question your worth, and they will NEVER make you change who you are. The perfect person doesn’t exist, so if you are constantly feeling as if you have to be in your relationship… you need to really reevaluate your relationship. Relationships are not complicated, they are supposed to be fun, natural, and bring you joy. The person who truly loves you will never try and change you. They will love every bit of you, all your flaws, all your imperfections, and all of what makes you, YOU. “The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly” as I like to call it. I cannot stress this enough, quit allowing this type of control, control you and change you. You will never need to change for the person who truly loves you, and you will never feel as if you aren’t good enough for them. Like I said, there is no such thing as a perfect person, but the person who does truly love you exists so quit wasting your time with someone who’s not them!
Trust me, the way you love yourself will only show others how to love you more. Don't lose yourself trying to love someone else. The right one will never expect you to change, they will never ask you to stop being who you are. And most importantly the right person will only treat you with the utmost respect and love, they will never make you question your worth, or make you feel that you are not worthy of love. So, if you are experiencing that in your relationship currently, this is your wake up call. Just remember, you won't ever have to change for the right person.
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